We are not responsible for anybody’s happiness but our own.

We are not responsible for anybody’s happiness but our own.

In the same way, no one else can take the credit for our joy. We cannot ‘make’ someone else happy or tippy toe and tap dance to ‘make’ and keep them happy.

It doesn’t work and it is absolutely exhausting.

We cannot, no matter how hard we try, control others choices. Love others enough to let them have their own way in life, to dance the way they want and to make their own demands, commands, pleas and bargains with their journey.

If you love them, love them enough to let them go so you both can grow.

They will get it IF you let it…go.

~Stacie Campanelli- The Queen Whisperer

*Personal Share* and A Fun New Year Exercise!



Happy New Year!

Timing is always in line with the Divine. It’s when you align with the Divine that you can start to enjoy the process. As you are wrapping up the last bits of this year and preparing for the New Year’s journey, ask your Higher self this question: What is the size I am to rise to in 2017? Then be in peace as you listen to the voice within. Align with your calling and let the journey begin <3

I have one idea today that I am hoping will inspire, encourage and help support you in creating and experiencing the best new year you have had (so far) 😉

New Year Fun: I have two questions for you that will help support you as you get ready to enter into 2017- and prepare you for the beauty and the best of the new year as you let go of all the rest…

Give yourself some time today to contemplate these questions and honor yourself for the wisdom gleaned and all that you’ve learned throughout the year.

1. What is the one thing/experience/lesson/theme you experienced during the year that you are willing and ready to release with peace and let go of?

2. What is one thing/experience/lesson/theme/strength that you discovered about yourself and are willing and ready to carry forward with you into 2017?

I will go first 😉

For me- I had a very challenging year in regards to deep emotional pains surrounding family issues/grief especially concerning my decision to let my Lexie stay in Las Vegas as I made the move to Colorado. The holidays especially brought up a ridiculous amount of pain points for me to address and heal. I have worked through these and am ready, willing and excited to release these with grace and ease and let them rest.

Second- I didn’t realize until recently as pointed out by quite a few of my friends how much courage it took for me to make this move by myself while not having any friends out here in Colorado or knowing anyone.

And committing to building an Academy for Authentic Women’s Empowerment from ground up. It also took a great deal of courage to step out of my comfort zone while here to take on Krav Maga boot camp and kickboxing which initially scared the beejeebies out of me 😉 and creating my podcast earlier this year as well as the Vlog to share the journey. In being courageous, I was introduced to a beautiful circle of over 25 amazing women here that I am now blessed to call each one my sister and belong to an exceptional sisterhood tribe.

It has been a year of pretty big change for me.  Scary, exciting, growth producing change- and all change once embraced opens you to a beautiful life created with passion, play and purpose.  Your turn…:) <3

Let me know the answer to both your questions! I would love to hear from you.

So much love and wishes for prosperity in every form for your new year,


My First Raw, Real, Authentic ME Single Mom Vlog

So I am getting ready to do something that I have NEVER done before- and just did something I have also never done before. But I believe in walking my talk and even though I am scared, and am talking through my discomfort and I am doing it scared.

I recorded my first “real, raw, super messy hair, absolutely no makeup whatsoever, crying for hours puffy eyes, moving boxes everywhere, unedited, unfiltered, unaltered” video “vlog”. I am sharing the worst shadowy side of ‘me’ as a mom in a very vulnerable, hurting, healing transitional moment. I hope by sharing the worst of me and rising through it, I can connect more authentically with my tribe and maybe, just maybe help someone else hurting and healing.


The Universe is Always Communicating with Us.

I saw this as I turned a corner a few nights ago and had to pull over to catch my breath- and capture this Divine angelic sign ✨

✨Speechless. Do you see it? Just. Wow. ✨

The Universe is always communicating with us, reassuring us, answering our prayers, soothing our hurts, affirming our desires, wishes and dreams – sometimes it’s a whisper and sometimes it’s a little louder 😉

Many are called, and very few awaken and answer.


Happy Easter! Happy Spring! Hoppy Happy Everything! :)




Hoppy Easter to all my ‘peeps

May you never feel hollow inside as you are filled to tilt with the sweetness of love, drink joy from the elixir of a life worth living, satiate your hearts every desire and always share in the laughter of loved ones, friends and family. 💗

May spring be a time to refresh, revamp, revitalize, recharge, rebirth and renew the beauty, the spirit and best of YOU 🌺

May you always rise to the occasion, spring forward, and be the first to hop on the trail that leads to your personal freedom.

Remember ‘Some Bunny‘ loves you EGG-zactly as you are 🐰🐣

We Forgive Not For Others To Be Free- We Let Go So We Can Rise To Our Size and Shine.

StacieCampanelli-queenwhispererquote-forgiveness2016The ultimate reason that we forgive is to keep our own hearts soft, to allow our own soul the freedom to breathe and to keep us as humans in a state of grace.

We never do it for the other person. We let go of the pain so our wounds can heal, release the hurt, betrayal and disappointment so we can experience the ultimate freedom.

It does not condone the behavior of family, friends or foes, nor does it give them permission to do it again. Forgiveness does not make us a doormat.

We forgive so that we may be free. To love again, to laugh again, to live again and to let go of the shackles around our hearts.

This includes forgiving ourselves as well.

Law of Attraction Truth: You Do Not Attract “Who & What” You Are. You Attract Who & What You “Think” You Are.


We do not attract who and what we “are”.

We attract who and what we “think” we are.

Who and what we are at our core essence is love, peace, joy, freedom, prosperity and perfect health.

Once you learn the difference, you can apply this fundamental truth of who and what you are to your life and magnetize and manifest the beauty and the best-

(which by the way…is the way you were originally designed and destined to live) ;


Podcast: Queens Quest: Who Do You Think You Are?!

Welcome to Queens Quest: Who Do You Think You Are?!

Queens Quest is a journey that we will travel together in discovering, uncovering, healing, revealing and reuniting you with the core of who you truly are. I will be sharing from the core of who I am- from a place I have never shared before. Until now. Growing in grace and goodness with my feminine Royal Council and Community. And I will be sharing tips, tricks, tools and techniques that will support all of us Spiritually Awakening Women in Queening Up and rising to our Royal size.

You can subscribe to my podcast on iTunes by clicking here

Episode 1: Queens Quest: Who Do You Think You Are?!

Welcome to Queens Quest: Who Do You Think You Are?! In this first podcast you will be introduced to your host (me) 😉 Stacie Campanelli – The Queen Whisperer. I will be giving a brief introduction and background on myself along with letting my vulnerabilities lay all out with regards to my fears of podcasting. I will also be laying the foundation and pre-paving the path for where the Queens Quest journey will take us as we travel together in discovering, uncovering, healing, revealing and reuniting you with the core of who you truly are.

I will be sharing from the core of who I am- from a place I have never shared before. Growing in grace with my feminine Royal Council and Community. And sharing tips, tricks, tools and techniques that will support all of us Spiritually Awakening Women in rising to our Royal size.

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Episode 3: Queens Quest: Who Do You Think You Are?!

In today’s episode we will talk about emotions and specifically, sadness. We live in a world lately that seems to be robotically hung up on the “be happy, be positive, think happy thoughts 24 hours a day and all will be rosy posey polly-wonderful…all…the…time…” Please. 

Although I have been a PollyAnna my entire life, I am also an nth degree Empath/HSP and allow myself to feel fully every emotion that is natural and a very large part of us being Spiritual beings on earth that are having a human experience. 

Today, I will debunk that myth of happy 100% of the time and shine a little light and love on the truth and gift of all our emotions. We will discuss healthy ways to process, work through and release the ones we don’t want to hold or harbor for extended periods of time. The five main emotions as I will share today, come from a favorite newer family movie of mine- The Disney/Pixar movie “Inside Out”. These five main emotions are Joy, Sadness, Anger, Disgust and Fear. Let’s dig in 😉 

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