When a Woman Queens Up and fully rises to her royal size,
her path becomes illuminated with all the magic, wonder,
and awe she couldn’t even have imagined in all the years of her playing
Princess and reading fairytales.
The infinite gifts of Communication. The beauty of the beholder. The sweetest smell ever imagined is ingested by the aroma of surrender. The truth. The Honesty. The heart. She pumps, she beats, she hungers, and she cries out… Sometimes so loud in silence that the body speaks what the lips withhold. A treasure so priceless and rare, that few have the ability to hold, while many are eluded to her grasp.
Sharing the gifts contained within the Sacred Chambers of the heart is an ability that we all hold within. When we choose to withhold, or hold out on and suppress the feelings and emotions that are designed to flow in a natural rhythm, we are cutting off the hearts ability to pump and circulate the vital life force. That life force is a Universal energy cord that connects hearts and spirits all around the world.
Over time, when we’ve refused to share and express our hurts, our pains, our frustrations, as well as our joys, excitement, dreams and desires; our hearts can become hardened and eventually feel the bitterness of resentment, regret and remorsefulness. We begin to deny our birthright to be loved, to feel loved, to give and to receive love. Do you ever find yourself withholding or pulling back when you want to share? Is your intention to receive unconditional love or keep yourself and your heart at a safe distance? We tend to run away from that we desire the most.
Do you want to feel the touch that has the power within to raise you to blissful heights and lay you to sleep with the caresses & serenade of the Heavens? Do you hunger to be enveloped by your lovers embrace? Do you hunger for connection with others, yet are afraid to risk being vulnerable?
Do you feel that your heart has closed up? Does your chest feel free & light or restricted and tight? When you set the intention to create a relationship, yet do not engage all your senses in defining that real-ationship, your end result leaves you unsatisfied and deepens your frustrations and sense of hopelessness.
We must begin with the truth. Sharing the gifts of communication means opening your heart and sharing the truth. In order to create love, we must first surrender to love.
We must let go of the facades and filters we hide behind, the shadows we take solace in, and the masks we wear. We must begin speaking from the heart center and speaking the truth of our own core values. We all have our own core values that we live by, in our lives and interactions with others. There is one common core value for all of humanity. It’s the core value that has been woven through the hearts of every living breathing being. The Universal Energetic Core Value is Love.
Is there a tightness in your chest and throat when you share? That means you’re not being honest- you’re not sharing from the place of authenticity. The place where all the true power resides. You’re wearing your heart like an armor & weapon that destroys the masses rather than a tool that builds foundations & bridges.
Is your language seasoned with love? Or peppered with distrust and fear of rejection. Is your heart heavily guarded or do you allow the emotion to flow effortlessly and with such grace that reciprocation becomes a steady dance of infinite beginnings… The exchange of emotions. Sharing, risking, fearing, opening yourself more than you’ve ever thought you could…In that moment of your greatest resistance holds within it the power to set a fire to passion, to build a bridge and expand the borders, and to allow you to begin to create the real-ationship of your dreams- and your own Happily Ever After. Starting with the dream come true, the beauty and best of you.
Trust yourself enough to be vulnerable. Trust the Universe to honor your vulnerability. Open your heart. Share the gifts of communication today. Your life and most loving relationship imaginable is waiting.
Love satisfies, fulfills.
Love is. Say it. Mean it. Lay it on the line. Make it count.
Connect eye to eye & heart to heart.
We were born to love.
By Stacie Campanelli- The Queen Whisperer
“The best strength is found in quiet kindness. The inner calm known as equanimity. Those who mistake kindness for weakness have never experienced the arms of a gentle giant. Those who have, know that although outer muscles are pleasant to look at, it’s the inner muscles that are a sight to be-hold”
~Stacie Campanelli- The Queen Whisperer
We are not responsible for anybody’s happiness but our own.
In the same way, no one else can take the credit for our joy. We cannot ‘make’ someone else happy or tippy toe and tap dance to ‘make’ and keep them happy.
It doesn’t work and it is absolutely exhausting.
We cannot, no matter how hard we try, control others choices. Love others enough to let them have their own way in life, to dance the way they want and to make their own demands, commands, pleas and bargains with their journey.
If you love them, love them enough to let them go so you both can grow.
They will get it IF you let it…go.
~Stacie Campanelli- The Queen Whisperer
Happy New Year!
Timing is always in line with the Divine. It’s when you align with the Divine that you can start to enjoy the process. As you are wrapping up the last bits of this year and preparing for the New Year’s journey, ask your Higher self this question: What is the size I am to rise to in 2017? Then be in peace as you listen to the voice within. Align with your calling and let the journey begin <3
I have one idea today that I am hoping will inspire, encourage and help support you in creating and experiencing the best new year you have had (so far) 😉
New Year Fun: I have two questions for you that will help support you as you get ready to enter into 2017- and prepare you for the beauty and the best of the new year as you let go of all the rest…
Give yourself some time today to contemplate these questions and honor yourself for the wisdom gleaned and all that you’ve learned throughout the year.
1. What is the one thing/experience/lesson/theme you experienced during the year that you are willing and ready to release with peace and let go of?
2. What is one thing/experience/lesson/theme/strength that you discovered about yourself and are willing and ready to carry forward with you into 2017?
I will go first 😉
For me- I had a very challenging year in regards to deep emotional pains surrounding family issues/grief especially concerning my decision to let my Lexie stay in Las Vegas as I made the move to Colorado. The holidays especially brought up a ridiculous amount of pain points for me to address and heal. I have worked through these and am ready, willing and excited to release these with grace and ease and let them rest.
Second- I didn’t realize until recently as pointed out by quite a few of my friends how much courage it took for me to make this move by myself while not having any friends out here in Colorado or knowing anyone.
And committing to building an Academy for Authentic Women’s Empowerment from ground up. It also took a great deal of courage to step out of my comfort zone while here to take on Krav Maga boot camp and kickboxing which initially scared the beejeebies out of me 😉 and creating my podcast earlier this year as well as the Vlog to share the journey. In being courageous, I was introduced to a beautiful circle of over 25 amazing women here that I am now blessed to call each one my sister and belong to an exceptional sisterhood tribe.
It has been a year of pretty big change for me. Scary, exciting, growth producing change- and all change once embraced opens you to a beautiful life created with passion, play and purpose. Your turn…:) <3
Let me know the answer to both your questions! I would love to hear from you.
So much love and wishes for prosperity in every form for your new year,